Taking Care of My Marriage
In a relationship, it is common for couples to fall into a routine. In the rush of our professional activities, we end up leaving simple things aside, such as doing something nice for our loved one.
We forget that he/she may also be having busy and perhaps even difficult days, so be kind. Above all, we must always remember the main mission of marriage, which is “make the other happy”.
If we always base ourselves on this principle, we will avoid major conflicts in our relationships, because whenever we do not feel valued or reciprocated in some situation, we remember that the objective for which I got married is to make the other person happy, regardless of whether they are making me happy.
Then you may ask yourself:
“But that’s not fair, just me making the person happy and me, who will make me happy?”, that’s where the beauty of this lies mission, because if I understand that I need to make the other person happy regardless of what they do, I already take a weight off my shoulders that I need all my actions to be reciprocated, and I am happy to see the other person happy, because I feel and see that I have fulfilled my mission.
However, the most interesting thing is that, when a person feels happy, loved and cared for by their partner, they are also a person who loves and cares, and the reciprocation is almost automatic.
In other words, if I dedicate myself to loving and caring for my partner and making him/her happy, I am even happier to see him/her happy and consequently I am reciprocated, and if not, I am still happy just to see the other person's happiness.
Can you understand the depth of this? That my joy and satisfaction is not in being made happy regardless of anything, but in making others happy.
Based on all this, I want to leave here an idea of how to please your loved one with something simple and out of the routine, which is a romantic dinner, or breakfast in bed, learn how to surprise the other person.
Based on the idea of dinner, make this moment different from ordinary days, prepare a beautiful table, use those glasses and cutlery that are kept for guests, with the most special person in your life, even if it is simple, prepare a delicious meal. Maybe your spouse's favorite, guys, buy flowers for your wives, they love them, put on some nice music, talk about nice things and dreams, leave the problems for another time. I am sure that this will be a very precious time for you as a couple.
Ultimately, with simple gestures we can demonstrate our love and care for our partner.
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